The Great One
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Precisely. Typically, the objective of someone with smooth and strong Fe is to make sure the group atmosphere is comfortable and "appropriate". If it's a formal dinner and someone is interjecting good-humoured but crass comments and is making the atmosphere "awkward", then the Fe user feels compelled to fix that. So basically if you can convince the person that everyone's fine with it, then he/she will cool it.
Also, it's probably more about them than you. If they don't feel comfortable in the situation/atmosphere or the less they know, the more overbearing they may be with the social rules. E3s are usually extra self-conscious about this, I think.
EDIT: Social rules are like a proactive measure for the Fe dom.
Yeah, I know what you mean. I find 2 w 3 ENFJ's the very hardest to deal with because their Fe is just dreadful, as well as the 3 w 2 types. The easiest ENFJ's for me to deal with are the 8 w 9's.