SilkRoad
Lay the coin on my tongue
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- May 26, 2009
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- 6w5
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- sp/sx
I don't like the bolded part. Keep an eye out for further evidence to substantiate or refute that statement. Falling in love with an emotionally unavailable person is a sure recipe for heartbreak. Just sayin.
(1) Have him take an online MBTI test and stop guessing his type. His MBTI type doesn't matter half as much as getting him to sit down in front of a computer.
Thomson-Maidenbaum Personality Inventory
(2) When he's clicked the submit button and tells you his type, walk up to him and say "ABCD's are supposed to be good kissers..." and plant one on him.
(3) If good kisser = keep after him.
If bad kisser = keep moving, find a new guy.
hahaha...all good advice.
I agree that "I'm too self-absorbed to be in a relationship" is not really what you want to be hearing. It could either mean he's trying to warn me off, or that yeah, he is emotionally unavailable. I'm kind of hoping it's just the fact that he was telling me about a relationship that he felt he personally had made a mess of (he said "it was my fault", to which I said "it's not usually entirely one person's fault") and it was one-thirty in the morning and we'd consumed a couple of drinks and were getting a little maudlin.
He has just gone off on another trip for a couple of weeks but I am going to see if I can get him to take me out on his motorbike when he's back. If we don't get killed, it seems like there might be some potential there.