-- so im a mature and sensible gay ENFP guy who is usually attracted to INTJs - i like listening to and watching their minds at work - i like the quiet intimacy we enjoy - i like knowing we can separate to have time for our own selves and knowing they will still be there - i like living in abstraction with them - but im living in new york city (brooklyn) and i cant seem to find out where they hang out - its hard enough trying to find a group of people to connect with who are only 3% of the population - let alone trying to find the 10% of that 3% who is actually gay - geez - i always end up with ISTJs without a clue - "S"s are everywhere!! - where should i go and what should i do???