Clegane
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Fe vs Fi
People try to be good, most of the time. I think it's especially because they fear being judged. But they fear the judgement of different judges.
Fe-valuers fear the judgement from other people. They fear being exposed. If they do something morally wrong, they feel guilty, but not because they think they did the wrong thing. They may continue thinking that they did the right thing, but they may regret it because other people could judge them for what they did.
Fi-valuers fear their own judgement. They have a rigid morality, and when they do something wrong, they'll feel bad because they feel dirty. They may think they're evil and hate themselves for it. The opinion of other people doesn't really bother them. It does, but not as much as for Fe-valuers.
This has to deal with the fact that Fi sees himself in a romantic and spiritual way. Fe, on the other hand, just would like to fit in and be liked.
I'm not saying that Fi doesn't want to fit in or that Fe got zero morality, but it tends to be like this.
This is my interpretation. Discuss.
People try to be good, most of the time. I think it's especially because they fear being judged. But they fear the judgement of different judges.
Fe-valuers fear the judgement from other people. They fear being exposed. If they do something morally wrong, they feel guilty, but not because they think they did the wrong thing. They may continue thinking that they did the right thing, but they may regret it because other people could judge them for what they did.
Fi-valuers fear their own judgement. They have a rigid morality, and when they do something wrong, they'll feel bad because they feel dirty. They may think they're evil and hate themselves for it. The opinion of other people doesn't really bother them. It does, but not as much as for Fe-valuers.
This has to deal with the fact that Fi sees himself in a romantic and spiritual way. Fe, on the other hand, just would like to fit in and be liked.
I'm not saying that Fi doesn't want to fit in or that Fe got zero morality, but it tends to be like this.
This is my interpretation. Discuss.