Blackout
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Hi,
Throughout much of my life I have noticed that I have not always been able to give off good first impressions, and that generally people have always been kind of put off by me in general. I have noticed that, I have not alway been adept or fluid at the expected social graces and thus it has made others a little leery of me or assume that I am a negative person of some sort (which, kind of falls outside my perogative anyway?) and have wondered if it's common for other Fi users to experience this. I relate or liken it to Fi as many other XNFP's I noticed have the same thing where they do not outwardly show all that much emotion or seem a little stoic.
It's really annoying. I have found that, many people just flat out don't like me on the basis, not of my actions but that I am not outgoing, amiable enough, and am a little eccentric. Also my intellectual leanings I have finally realized just are not appreciated or accepted as well.
But as well, to give further credence to what other's think
Throughout much of my life I have noticed that I have not always been able to give off good first impressions, and that generally people have always been kind of put off by me in general. I have noticed that, I have not alway been adept or fluid at the expected social graces and thus it has made others a little leery of me or assume that I am a negative person of some sort (which, kind of falls outside my perogative anyway?) and have wondered if it's common for other Fi users to experience this. I relate or liken it to Fi as many other XNFP's I noticed have the same thing where they do not outwardly show all that much emotion or seem a little stoic.
It's really annoying. I have found that, many people just flat out don't like me on the basis, not of my actions but that I am not outgoing, amiable enough, and am a little eccentric. Also my intellectual leanings I have finally realized just are not appreciated or accepted as well.
But as well, to give further credence to what other's think