Brendan
Guerilla Urbanist
- Joined
- Apr 23, 2007
- Messages
- 911
- MBTI Type
- ENFJ
Sometimes I feel that because I'm an F and because of everything that comes with it, I can actually be very insensitive.
Let me explain: it's not that I'm intentionally insensitive. Because I'm so ready to see the emotional aspect of things, particularly how I would feel about them, I can get emotional tunnel vision. Sometimes I can become so adamant about sharing my thoughts with someone who is emotionally in need that I forget to step back and just LISTEN.
I think this makes me especially weak. Since I can be so forward with my opinions, I fear I may scare off those who might just want to talk about something. Just talk, not necessarily get advice, and I'm worried that I do this even with my close friends.
Let me explain: it's not that I'm intentionally insensitive. Because I'm so ready to see the emotional aspect of things, particularly how I would feel about them, I can get emotional tunnel vision. Sometimes I can become so adamant about sharing my thoughts with someone who is emotionally in need that I forget to step back and just LISTEN.
I think this makes me especially weak. Since I can be so forward with my opinions, I fear I may scare off those who might just want to talk about something. Just talk, not necessarily get advice, and I'm worried that I do this even with my close friends.