Okay, so you made your opening statement which lots of people have seen, but perhaps some people miss this fine bit of egoism. I will address it in chunks, referencing your opening post as well.
[MENTION=5494]Amargith[/MENTION], your response makes plenty of sense to me
IDK if we are friendemies or what we are. I think if the geography wasn't a given, we'd be AT MOST friends that see each other only once in a while. Even our interests are drastically different. Have been forever. I had a Taiwanese friend back in middle school, and he and I bonded over our love of basketball. I remember this friend getting jealous because he saw me wanting to hang out with my Taiwanese friend more than I wanted to hang out with him.
He moved away.
Okay, so here when someone questions whether you are really friends, you respond by saying IDK, and then bringing out more dirt on your 'friend'.
You bring up a real friend, and mention his ethnicity over and over for some reason, and then point out that your 'friend' with whom you have no interests in common got jealous. This suggests a hint of racism.
Frankly, my INTJ friend's entire family is messed up. His twin sister is on drugs and she has the emotional and mental maturity of a 14 year old, the mom is a stressed out mess, and the dad is not what I'd call a man. I remember trying to unite my Taiwanese friend and my INTJ friend, so I brought him over to the INTJ friend's house. His mom warned him that "he isn't to be trusted, he'd steal from you if he had the chance." Nothing to do with him being Taiwanese, but I think it had more to do with him being my best friend.
Now, you are no longer satisfied with trashing your 'friend', so you drag in his family, all of whom are apparently horrible. What does 'the dad is not what I'd call a man' mean? You also mention your 'real' friend's ethnicity again, and attribute an exact quote to his mother in which she plays to a traditional racial stereotype of Asians. Apparently to make sure that we don't miss her racism, you specifically deny that she was being racist (although your reason contradicting this makes no sense to me).
Now, fast forward to today. Like I said, I have a degree from a prestigious university, and actually turned down a few offers because they were corporate or I didn't trust the company's philosophy. I have been accepted into a medical program and deferred a year so I can check out the job market. In casual conversation with INTJ's mom, I told her how I wanted to find a proper job and hated the search. Her response? "Yeah right. You don't want a job. You want to sit at home where mom and dad feed you and pay your bills." She has equated me with her son who hasn't accomplished even a toenail of what I have accomplished. Even in my spare time, I do math problems, read, and write FOR FUN because I don't want my brain to go to waste. This is in addition to the 3-4 hours I spend daily looking for a career.
With that being said, I think I've found the organization for me in Teach for America.
Here you beat your chest in the most extraordinary manner. I have a hard time believing some of this. So, you went to a prestigious university and got a degree in philosophy? And then were admitted to medical school? Philosophy isn't the typical pre-med degree, but maybe you could be telling the truth here.
It's when you say that you have received a bunch of job offers and actually turned down a few "because they were corporate or I didn't trust the company's philosophy" that I really have to take a step back. 'Everyone' knows you can't get a job with a general humanities degree; least of all with a degree in Philosophy. But not only are you able to find a job, you are able to turn down offers! On ethical grounds!
Okay, I admit that the common stereotype of being unable to get a job with a liberal arts degree is misleading. You can find some jobs. But instead of being desperate for whatever you can get, you are actually turning stuff down? This strains credulity. Unless you went to Harvard... Why don't you name this prestigious university for us?
In closing, I want to contrast the qualities you have attributed to yourself, and the qualities you have attributed to your friend; we'll see if the two line up in any conceivable way.
Your Friend: Smoking marijuana, sexist, close to homophobic, maybe a little bit racist, a messed up family, a huge ego, lies about having an IQ in the 140s, no job, no plan to get a job, and rubbing his sole accomplishment (a cute gf) in your face in the most shallow manner. And he cusses at you when he loses an argument.
You: A high achiever, graduated from a prestigious university, accepted into medical school, offered jobs, an IQ in the 140s, belonging to a minority group, against sexism and homophobia, a rational view of yourself (lol), driven to succeed. And you are a great friend; you refuse to go do stuff with all your other friends unless they invite the drug addict along with you.
So, the above doesn't get to all of the many things you have said about yourself and him, but I think the message is clear. You have some explaining to do.