antireconciler
it's a nuclear device
- Joined
- Apr 29, 2007
- Messages
- 866
- MBTI Type
- Intj
- Enneagram
- 5w4
- Instinctual Variant
- so
Cliche Cat is waved like a hijab by the rainbow people.
Kittens and rainbows are in the front line of the order of battle.
No cliche is wasted, and no cliche is too much.
We shall simply bore them into submission, cliche after cliche.
Our depression industriously produces cliche, after cliche, after cliche.
We will bury you under a never ending barrage of cliches.
Until it clicks that you have no right to joie de vivre, no right to the freshly minted word, that your unalterable fate is to be depressed like us.
All you need to do is pretend and pretend and pretend to love kittens and rainbows and depression will follow as the night the day.
Trust no one over 30! No, trust no one who doesn't love kittens and rainbows.
For no one who loves kittens and rainbows can be all bad - can they?
And as Victor knows to his chagrin, no one likes to be told the Emperor is naked.
Fear of uncertainty? Uncertainty is only frightening because the outcome may be rejection.Gave this some thought and think it's mostly this for me.
For me it's that I fear not knowing while waiting in suspense for the answer, an answer that has to be given to me, one that I can not force out of someone or find on my own.
Fear of uncertainty coupled with the knowledge it is out of my own hands to ascertain, rather then the fear of rejection.
Well, once rejected, the feeling is gone and I'm fine with moving on. So. Do I really fear rejection then?
Yup. That's what fear of rejection is. For me the irrational fear of rejection bothers me but being rejected doesn't faze me, I move on straight away and usually see how it's created opportunities rather than how it sucked.
Not being able to handle rejection and having a fear of it are two very different beasts.