hazyforest
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forgive me as i am new here and still figuring out how to find threads pertaining to ESFPs.
i have an ESFP male in my life and having a heck of a time trying to read him. He is your typical flirty, social, outgoing male. We've had arguments about how flirty he can be with girls and it gets him in trouble, tho he doesn't seem to ever learn his lesson when he girls go psycho on him. Anyhoo, my question to you all lovely people is this:
how can one tell if an ESFP male is sincerely, genuinly into a girl and not just looking for an ego boost. I know you guys are capable of deep feelings.
Mine has been so back and forth with mixed signals i dont know how to proceed. Someone once told me it was all in his body language. He seems interested if that was what I had to go by, but on the same token, I know that you guys are mega flirts and one can easily misconstrue your meaning. PLEASE HELP a lovelorn girl out.
i have an ESFP male in my life and having a heck of a time trying to read him. He is your typical flirty, social, outgoing male. We've had arguments about how flirty he can be with girls and it gets him in trouble, tho he doesn't seem to ever learn his lesson when he girls go psycho on him. Anyhoo, my question to you all lovely people is this:
how can one tell if an ESFP male is sincerely, genuinly into a girl and not just looking for an ego boost. I know you guys are capable of deep feelings.
Mine has been so back and forth with mixed signals i dont know how to proceed. Someone once told me it was all in his body language. He seems interested if that was what I had to go by, but on the same token, I know that you guys are mega flirts and one can easily misconstrue your meaning. PLEASE HELP a lovelorn girl out.