PeaceRobin
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- Nov 10, 2009
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Sorry if this has been asked before. I am fairly new and not familiar with thread etiquette so to say.
Could you please share your experiences long term with ESFP and ENFP romantic relationships? I have been dating my ESFP boyfriend for a few months and things are coming along great. I enjoy his openness and contant confirmation. I like dating a Feeler and especially and extrovert. My last boyfriend was way too I (INTP i think) and we could never do anything sociable together and he could never talk about his feelings.
It's fun to be very sociable now at this age, but it's scares me to think if he will be like this forever. When it's time to settle down with a family, I feel he may still want to put the same effort into his social life as opppose to transferring his concentration to family. Also, we are in the new dating honeymoon faze so it's easy to run off of that to be happy but I'm wondering how his lack of N will inhibit us in the future... Also, ESFPs aren't good at future planning and live for the now so struggle finishing college. I feel this limits are locations down the road because of lack of job options for him because he has no degree.. As an ENFP I hate being constrained to one place...
Could you please share your experiences long term with ESFP and ENFP romantic relationships? I have been dating my ESFP boyfriend for a few months and things are coming along great. I enjoy his openness and contant confirmation. I like dating a Feeler and especially and extrovert. My last boyfriend was way too I (INTP i think) and we could never do anything sociable together and he could never talk about his feelings.
It's fun to be very sociable now at this age, but it's scares me to think if he will be like this forever. When it's time to settle down with a family, I feel he may still want to put the same effort into his social life as opppose to transferring his concentration to family. Also, we are in the new dating honeymoon faze so it's easy to run off of that to be happy but I'm wondering how his lack of N will inhibit us in the future... Also, ESFPs aren't good at future planning and live for the now so struggle finishing college. I feel this limits are locations down the road because of lack of job options for him because he has no degree.. As an ENFP I hate being constrained to one place...