marmandahalf
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same here. and, i love not looking 'the part'. so much so, that i cultivate it deliberately just for the surprise when they find out.
But then the wrong kinds of people tend to be attracted. Boys who want pretty, vacant girls start sniffing around, and then when I slam down with my ENTP hammer, they run the hell away. Which I understand in principle, but it doesn't do wonders for my whole ENTP abandonment issues.
Also, boys who are in fact kindred spirits tend to be intimidated when I look cute. I've met someone while looking grungy, had an awesome conversation, and then seen him the next day when I was normal and he was too stuttery to talk anymore. It sucked.
So not looking the part, while fun for shock value, has its downfalls.
Also, my fave ENTP song:
YouTube - Don McLean - Everybody loves me (music&lyrics) (ignore the insipidity of the user-made vid)