Vie
Giggity
- Joined
- Jun 9, 2010
- Messages
- 792
- MBTI Type
- ENTJ
- Enneagram
- 8
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THIS IS THE #1 REASON THAT 99% OF ALL OF MY PRIOR RELATIONSHIPS ENDED OVER !!
I don't know why, but sometimes I feel as if I'm being ignored. Momentary cease of communication may be part of a healthy relationship, or it could signal something else is going on!
I DON'T KNOW HOW TO DISCERN! That's my problem.
The word "ignored" is the label attached to all prior affairs. I try to find out why I feel this way - but I never get a straight answer. Then I just call it quits.
Well, fellow ENTJs when it comes to affairs I suppose our lack of discernment and cold unforgiving endings may very well be our "tragic flaw"
ME TOO. I feel as though I'm being ignored, even when I rationally know I'm not. My SO could be at work or hanging with other people, but if they don't answer I begin to feel as though I'm being ignored. I react in a pissed off way and they are left being confused as to why I'm mad.
If they just said in an honest way, Hey I'm busy for a bit we can talk later -- I would have NO PROBLEM what so ever. I just hate that people can be really passive aggressive about things, so I expect that everyone is passive aggressive -- thereby not having the balls to stop "ignoring" me.
If that makes sense.
Then I begin to try harder for a bit to get their attention, making it seem like I'm clingy. Then when they continue to evade, I cut them out of my life.
Sometimes, (hell, most of the time) people are left wondering why I'm no longer speaking to them.
Bahaha.