^^ Ugh, I couldn't imagine it would be pretty.
I am strictly against having a man in my workplace that I am with, as it would really distract me to a point of which it would become a problem in the relationship.
I agree with everything thing said about, EVERYTHING, but some things I must add:
- I will push the person I love the more I get to know them. It's not so much a nagging, more of...a friendly reminder. My boy doesn't seem to mind after four years as I do in it a way that makes it seem like -- get the shit done, and then we can play.
- The love I have really does last forever. I tend to idealize the person I am with, and put them up on a pedestal. When I fall, I fall HARD and without any sort of logic or rational entering the equation (this doesn't last as I get my head on straight again sooner or later, but it's a scary time when it does!)
- I will do anything, and I mean ANYTHING for the person I love unless they do something that disrespects me of which I wash my hands of them. But it has to be REALLY fucking bad for this to happen, and has only happened once.
- I am really a romantic. I think of all sorts of cute things to do to help my boy through hard times. I'm just bad about talking feelings, haha.
Like the person said above, I let my boy see me the soft purr rather than the shit-making-ROAR that everyone else sees.