I don't exactly agree with Thatgirl, but Jag - you're again trying to give as your "solution" that someone's not an ENTJ. Wonder why you're so stuck with that routine. You should know that MBTI types only give a good match to some people - a deficiency of the instrument. Yet, per theory, everyone supposedly has an MBTI type.
In response to Thatgirl: I'm usually relaxed and happy when meeting people for the first time in real life. I give them the benefit of doubt and expect they're ok. I usually enjoy my time, whether alone or with someone, so I'm enjoying my time with them, as well.
My moods carry on from situation to another, so I don't just think people on technical grounds, and not just by cost-benefit analysis or something like that. Of course, I'm interested of finding some common themes, something we both can benefit from.