Phoenix
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- Jul 31, 2011
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I haven't read the OP, but ENFJs collectively use others a lot more than others use them
Can't agree with this ... but can't disagree with it either I guess it has to do with good or bad motives and the health of the ENFJ. Stressed ENFJ's are a lot like unhealthy INFJ's - constantly using people recklessly for their own support, or misjudging intentions and projecting their own failures unto others -- but generally healthy ENFJ's are inherently more giving than other types.
But that said .. who's really truly an angel out there anyways We've all got our problems and use others for our needs. Some people actually like that for some reason