SarahZafar
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- MBTI Type
- ENFJ
Okay, this is my first post in this forum. So please be a little easy on this fellow ENFJ.
I had a date with this ENFP on Thursday night. It was really nice. I had such a good time and I think he did too. During the dinner, we did multiple MBTI tests and found out that he is an ENFP. I was staying over at a hotel near the restaurant where we went for the date (i love 1 hour away and it was late and I was too tipsy to drive home). He picked up the bill and teasingly told me that the next time we go out, it will be on me. I was like, sure, we will do Starbucks then! (It sounded like he wanted to see me again?)
We hugged each other goodnight when it was time to call it a night. He told me to message him once I safely reached my hotel. I texted him and thanked him for the night and told him that I found him handsome. After 15 minutes, the dude texted me back, asking me if it is okay for him to come over to hang out. I responded with, "Sure" - not to sound too eager. When he finally came, I asked him what made him change his mind, and he is like, "unfinished business". Now, I don't think that the guy was trying to sleep with me because he did not even KISS me goodnight when we were leaving.
Anyway, he shows up - we chat a bit more, have some drinks that I had brought - soon, we found ourselves making out. We didn't do the deed. But while kissing, I told him that I really wanted to kiss him earlier when we were leaving the restaurant - and he said that he knew that. I also teasingly asked him, "Why didn't you say that you found me attractive?" (now, mind you, I was TIPSY.) And he was like, "there are so many things I keep to myself." We kissed some more before we literally fell asleep with our foreheads touching.
The next morning, he gets up and had to leave for work. After he got dressed, he kissed my forehead and gave me a peck. I was like, "Kiss me again." And this time he left a loooong lingering kiss - it felt so lovey-dovey and I loved that!
I really thought that I made an impression/he liked me/he would want to stay in touch.
But he has not texted me back ever since.... he has not responded to my messages too...
I really thought we connected - the NF-NF - it was also the first time that I was with an NF. So, for me, it felt - it felt like something so deep, intense, loving, and beautiful. I don't know if I am imagining it all or if what I felt was actually there.
I do feel sad, and almost heartbroken. What's wrong with me?
I had a date with this ENFP on Thursday night. It was really nice. I had such a good time and I think he did too. During the dinner, we did multiple MBTI tests and found out that he is an ENFP. I was staying over at a hotel near the restaurant where we went for the date (i love 1 hour away and it was late and I was too tipsy to drive home). He picked up the bill and teasingly told me that the next time we go out, it will be on me. I was like, sure, we will do Starbucks then! (It sounded like he wanted to see me again?)
We hugged each other goodnight when it was time to call it a night. He told me to message him once I safely reached my hotel. I texted him and thanked him for the night and told him that I found him handsome. After 15 minutes, the dude texted me back, asking me if it is okay for him to come over to hang out. I responded with, "Sure" - not to sound too eager. When he finally came, I asked him what made him change his mind, and he is like, "unfinished business". Now, I don't think that the guy was trying to sleep with me because he did not even KISS me goodnight when we were leaving.
Anyway, he shows up - we chat a bit more, have some drinks that I had brought - soon, we found ourselves making out. We didn't do the deed. But while kissing, I told him that I really wanted to kiss him earlier when we were leaving the restaurant - and he said that he knew that. I also teasingly asked him, "Why didn't you say that you found me attractive?" (now, mind you, I was TIPSY.) And he was like, "there are so many things I keep to myself." We kissed some more before we literally fell asleep with our foreheads touching.
The next morning, he gets up and had to leave for work. After he got dressed, he kissed my forehead and gave me a peck. I was like, "Kiss me again." And this time he left a loooong lingering kiss - it felt so lovey-dovey and I loved that!
I really thought that I made an impression/he liked me/he would want to stay in touch.
But he has not texted me back ever since.... he has not responded to my messages too...
I really thought we connected - the NF-NF - it was also the first time that I was with an NF. So, for me, it felt - it felt like something so deep, intense, loving, and beautiful. I don't know if I am imagining it all or if what I felt was actually there.
I do feel sad, and almost heartbroken. What's wrong with me?