Simi
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- Jul 24, 2011
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- MBTI Type
- ENFJ
So, I'll tell you as much as I can about him.
I'm pretty sure he is an INFJ, but I've never really tried to type anyone so I could be totally wrong.
So, first off, he is really quiet. When I call him shy he denies being shy and claims that he is just more of a listener.
He seems to like to be out with friends, but he doesn't really initiate plans by himself. He sort of just lets plans come to him.
He is a really giving guy, like he will drive anyone, anywhere. He is seriously one of the most considerate friends I have, and he won't accept anything back. I feel really guilty whenever he drives me home because he has to pay for his own gas, he is in high school and doesn't have a stable job because there are seriously no jobs available out here right now.
He is head over heels for my other friend, and I don't mean to say anything bad about her because I love her completely and I really think that she is fun to be around, but she uses him repeatedly. Because he likes her so much, he just lets her use him but it really does bother him. I can tell that he feels really insecure about it.
He also suffers from depression (although you wouldn't be able to tell by just being with him), and he is sensitive to my issues as well. Like we can just discuss with each other how we feel about things and trust that it isn't going to get out.
It also seems like he met a majority of his friends through his younger brother, (the INTP I talked about in another thread) and the INTP seriously thinks that he is hated by the brother I'm trying to type right now.
But back to my main point.
He also has not gone too far with the ladies, I'm pretty sure it's because he is shy but in denial about it. (He isn't ugly or anything. Man I like parentheses!)
I seriously think he would do anything to make anyone happy, although he does have a temper (however short it is, it still exists). He gets upset over being blown off or used and tells me that he is contemplating getting rid of someone, but within a few hours he is totally over it and does nothing.
He is seriously one of my really good friends, I have no problem talking to him or hanging out with him. However, a few of my other friends are scared to talk to him because they don't seem to be able to get to know him.
Like I said, he is just one of those people you have to initiate contact with first before you really get to know them. (If I even said that..)
Anyway, do you think he is an INFJ or any other opinions?
I'm pretty sure he is an INFJ, but I've never really tried to type anyone so I could be totally wrong.
So, first off, he is really quiet. When I call him shy he denies being shy and claims that he is just more of a listener.
He seems to like to be out with friends, but he doesn't really initiate plans by himself. He sort of just lets plans come to him.
He is a really giving guy, like he will drive anyone, anywhere. He is seriously one of the most considerate friends I have, and he won't accept anything back. I feel really guilty whenever he drives me home because he has to pay for his own gas, he is in high school and doesn't have a stable job because there are seriously no jobs available out here right now.
He is head over heels for my other friend, and I don't mean to say anything bad about her because I love her completely and I really think that she is fun to be around, but she uses him repeatedly. Because he likes her so much, he just lets her use him but it really does bother him. I can tell that he feels really insecure about it.
He also suffers from depression (although you wouldn't be able to tell by just being with him), and he is sensitive to my issues as well. Like we can just discuss with each other how we feel about things and trust that it isn't going to get out.
It also seems like he met a majority of his friends through his younger brother, (the INTP I talked about in another thread) and the INTP seriously thinks that he is hated by the brother I'm trying to type right now.
But back to my main point.
He also has not gone too far with the ladies, I'm pretty sure it's because he is shy but in denial about it. (He isn't ugly or anything. Man I like parentheses!)
I seriously think he would do anything to make anyone happy, although he does have a temper (however short it is, it still exists). He gets upset over being blown off or used and tells me that he is contemplating getting rid of someone, but within a few hours he is totally over it and does nothing.
He is seriously one of my really good friends, I have no problem talking to him or hanging out with him. However, a few of my other friends are scared to talk to him because they don't seem to be able to get to know him.
Like I said, he is just one of those people you have to initiate contact with first before you really get to know them. (If I even said that..)
Anyway, do you think he is an INFJ or any other opinions?