When you have a problem with them?
Or do you sort of wait it out- hope it fades away- and that you don't ever have to address it?
Or do youtry to hit it at the source.
Or do you passive aggressively 'feed' off of disliking someone and see nothing wrong with 'targeting' them in some way shape or form. (Gossip, direct attacks, underhanded remarks, ignoring them- ect ect-)
Well, it depends on the reason
why I dislike them. I need to look into it more before I actually do something about it, otherwise I'd just be an irrational piece of shit.
At times, I can figure out a reason why I have an issue with a person.
For example, I dislike a lot of people at work, but the reason is because they're incompetent. So I tell them the things they need to fix. I can be rather stern about it too. If they don't want to get yelled at, they need to do their job right...
Sometimes waiting it out works, especially if the reason I dislike someone is a bad first impression. I feel disdain toward most people on first impression anyway, so I've learned over time that I need to re-evaluate people as I talk to them more. Oftentimes, my opinion changes, and then I don't have to do anything, I can naturally be civil.
Otherwise, I just "target" them. I'm aloof toward majority of people, but I have no problem outright ignoring people I despise in person. The difference between my regular withdrawal and outright ignoring someone is that I usually acknowledge strangers in some way, be it nodding or "mmhmm." If I have ill feelings toward someone, I'll just leave when they're talking.
Sometimes I make underhanded remarks if I need to talk to them. Fuck gossip though. I admit, I'm guilty if I find out that other people dislike the same person I do... but I try not to initiate it. It just doesn't do anything helpful.
Question is. What do you do when you dislike someone? Try to remove yourself from situations involving them? What if not possible- just try to be civil?
Either tell them or leave, in person.
Online is harder. I often find that online friends have taste in friends that do not match up with my own, so I resort to only talking to my friends on DM a lot of the time to avoid the people with whom I have beef. I know in the past I've had many online friends who don't care for some of my other online friends, but I'm not mature like they are... This is kind of why I don't like big groups after a while.
How do you handle friction/dislike/whatever- from others?
Not well, I'm a fucking hypocrite.
I allow myself to hate people with "reasons" behind it, but whenever someone shows any negative opinion towards me, I dwell in it for ages and then wonder what the fuck is wrong with me.