Liquid and Flammable
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- Joined
- Nov 7, 2009
- Messages
- 68
- MBTI Type
- ENTP
- Enneagram
- 7w6
There is a strange situation I am in now.
I (male) met a girl, in a working situation, and I saw her one time per week. Early I recognized, she is ENTP (broad gestics, talking much about herself, just a few questions to others, sometimes shy, sometimes open, problems with planning of time, trys to compete me, and so on). The first conversation was very cool and unreserved, but even as we saw much similarities, it was nearly impossible to go deeper.
The more often we meet, the more casual were the conversation. At the last time we couldn't talk anything. I found no starting point. That's strange, has anyone here experienced something like that?
I can better connect to those, who are unfamiliar to me than to a girl, that is very familiar. Strange. There was another ENTP-girl last year, the same happened. She competes me often, I refused and after some time the conversations don't go deeper. ENTP-males are similar, but not so extreme, it seems that I can connect easier to them (I meet them in job situations, a fundament for talking about aims and plans).
Well, question is: How to build deeper rapport with ENTPs?
I (male) met a girl, in a working situation, and I saw her one time per week. Early I recognized, she is ENTP (broad gestics, talking much about herself, just a few questions to others, sometimes shy, sometimes open, problems with planning of time, trys to compete me, and so on). The first conversation was very cool and unreserved, but even as we saw much similarities, it was nearly impossible to go deeper.
The more often we meet, the more casual were the conversation. At the last time we couldn't talk anything. I found no starting point. That's strange, has anyone here experienced something like that?
I can better connect to those, who are unfamiliar to me than to a girl, that is very familiar. Strange. There was another ENTP-girl last year, the same happened. She competes me often, I refused and after some time the conversations don't go deeper. ENTP-males are similar, but not so extreme, it seems that I can connect easier to them (I meet them in job situations, a fundament for talking about aims and plans).
Well, question is: How to build deeper rapport with ENTPs?