Devil Flamingo
Kultainen Kuningas
- Joined
- Sep 2, 2010
- Messages
- 148
- MBTI Type
- ISFP
- Enneagram
- 4w3
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
I don't know if any gay folks posted here (I read most posts days ago and don't recall if anyone did) but I definitely have this kind of relationship with my bff Sean (ESFP, I think) who is straight. Of course, being gay, I can't help but find him attractive, and we've been friends since our early teens, so at times I wondered if I was in love with him (or at least in lust) because teen hormones and all that yadda yadda. But, despite how long it took me to realize it, I have come to the happy conclusion that my love for him (and his for me) is beyond that of relationships. We are more than just friends; we're true comrades (he is a commie, and while I don't consider myself, being Cuban I know a lot about socialism and/or communism and I'm sympathetic to the cause, though that's neither here nor there), and to me that means so much more than friendship or romantic love or having sex. He loves me like he loves no other man, not even his brother, and I feel the same way about him. Our love simply transcends the boundaries of time, space and even sexuality; we are truly a match made in heaven, just not a sexual or romantic one (although we both agree that were I a woman or were he gay, we'd probably be all over each other, lol). I don't know about ESFP and ENFP compatibility, but at least astrologically (as far as Chinese astrology is concerned) we're in total sync; he's Rat and I'm Dragon, and apparently they're perfect together.
But yeah...
But yeah...