seeker22
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As many of you have read from earlier posts, I am single, having gotten out of my LTR (five years) one year ago and gone through all my grieving and all that. I have just recently felt ready to date again.
So: how do people date these days? One at a time? Or multiple "irons in the fire?"
I was all set to do the "one at a time" thing and people told me that was old school, and people date many at once now.
So now, we have to define dating! I guess for me dating = getting to know someone. For others, dating means sex.
So if you date around, does that also mean sleep around?? I could not do that.
Hmmm... There are pros and cons to both approaches.
Would anyone here be offended if the person you were dating told you they were also dating other people?? I guess it goes back to how that person defines dating... Discuss...
So: how do people date these days? One at a time? Or multiple "irons in the fire?"
I was all set to do the "one at a time" thing and people told me that was old school, and people date many at once now.
So now, we have to define dating! I guess for me dating = getting to know someone. For others, dating means sex.
So if you date around, does that also mean sleep around?? I could not do that.
Hmmm... There are pros and cons to both approaches.
Would anyone here be offended if the person you were dating told you they were also dating other people?? I guess it goes back to how that person defines dating... Discuss...