clippityclop
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Alright!
So this is one of those annoying posts about some confusion concerning a love interest. I'm sorry in advance.
I'm an enfp, and I've known this intj for a while. We did actually date years and years ago, and even though its been a decade or longer of us not dating, we have always remained friends and have been on okayish terms. Well in the past few months, things between us have been kind of going in a very heated direction. We did hook up a few times, and it was actually really great. But then he had to take this job that required him to move away for a year. So we both kind of made the agreement that we would keep contact, and maybe if the opportunity presented itself, sleep with other people and it would be okay. Well its been a month or so, I did hook up with someone. I told him and he's pissed off, BUT the catch is he's moving back for an ever better job now. But I think he's so mad and hurt by me that he doesn't take us seriously now. He's being crazily cold towards me.
So I'm wondering, what is the chance he'll just forget about it and move on? I wouldnt have done this if I had known he was going to be back so soon, and we did make the agreement we could hook up with other people. Or is he just so thrown off by how hurt he actually is by it, and he's freaked out and wants nothing to do with his emotions...??? haha help me out intjs!!!
So this is one of those annoying posts about some confusion concerning a love interest. I'm sorry in advance.
I'm an enfp, and I've known this intj for a while. We did actually date years and years ago, and even though its been a decade or longer of us not dating, we have always remained friends and have been on okayish terms. Well in the past few months, things between us have been kind of going in a very heated direction. We did hook up a few times, and it was actually really great. But then he had to take this job that required him to move away for a year. So we both kind of made the agreement that we would keep contact, and maybe if the opportunity presented itself, sleep with other people and it would be okay. Well its been a month or so, I did hook up with someone. I told him and he's pissed off, BUT the catch is he's moving back for an ever better job now. But I think he's so mad and hurt by me that he doesn't take us seriously now. He's being crazily cold towards me.
So I'm wondering, what is the chance he'll just forget about it and move on? I wouldnt have done this if I had known he was going to be back so soon, and we did make the agreement we could hook up with other people. Or is he just so thrown off by how hurt he actually is by it, and he's freaked out and wants nothing to do with his emotions...??? haha help me out intjs!!!