mrcockburn
Aquaria
- Joined
- Jan 3, 2010
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- sp/so
Why is it (in real life) that I always attract INFJs (in proportion to other types)? I'm always meeting and talking to new people, but the INFJs are the most likely types to keep pursuing me and take things to a more serious level than they should be.
What causes you to do that to people? Do you do it to everyone, you players?
Many of them that I meet become borderline stalkerish - not in a threatening/scary way (I've had that with exes too, but none of them were INFJs), but just like...whoa. Too much. They just vibe to me as way too emotionally invested. Their hearts are a house of cards that I always accidentally knock down.
Hard to explain. But my last relationship was actually with an INFJ, and it ended badly. Very badly.
I never exit relationships with INFJs on a good note for some reason, it's always a horrific drama. You guys are awesome though until the inevitable end though!
What causes you to do that to people? Do you do it to everyone, you players?
Many of them that I meet become borderline stalkerish - not in a threatening/scary way (I've had that with exes too, but none of them were INFJs), but just like...whoa. Too much. They just vibe to me as way too emotionally invested. Their hearts are a house of cards that I always accidentally knock down.
Hard to explain. But my last relationship was actually with an INFJ, and it ended badly. Very badly.
I never exit relationships with INFJs on a good note for some reason, it's always a horrific drama. You guys are awesome though until the inevitable end though!