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The Iron Giant
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I'm studying cognitive functions, and I have several of them down completely, including Fi. Ask me about it, and let's learn more together.
1. What are emotions like for an Fi user? Are they complex? Why can't you put them into words?
2. Where do your moral values come from?
3. What does it feel like when you break a moral value?
Your dominant function, by default, intimately ties your personal value to the way others treat you. If you can't grow to genuinely personalize that there is a space between the way others treat you and what you're worth, you'll find yourself worthless in a world filled with monsters who must be destroyed, instead of wonderful in a world of genuinely decent people who don't share your values and don't understand that they're hurting your feelings.
Do you ever have any sort of conflict with a Fe user, and just know you are right based on your feelings?
I think that Fi can seem inconsiderate and selfish from the perspective of an Fe user, just as Fe can seem inauthentic from the perspective of an Fi user. Fi is concerned with fairness and consistency of values, while Fe concerns itself more with making sure there is harmony between people. Most societies will traditionally value Fe over Fi, because Fi is more likely to rock the boat, and perhaps not do it in a delicate way, when something seems to be amiss.
Something I posted on another forum, a piece of advice for growing Fi doms:
Your dominant function, by default, intimately ties your personal value to the way others treat you. If you can't grow to genuinely personalize that there is a space between the way others treat you and what you're worth, you'll find yourself worthless in a world filled with monsters who must be destroyed, instead of wonderful in a world of genuinely decent people who don't share your values and don't understand that they're hurting your feelings.
Very well said mister.
Can you talk to me about how fi is experienced for you as an istj?
How can I hurt Fi people most effectively ?
Not just about Fi, but how do Fi users differ from Fe users when it comes to anger? More specifically, is there a difference between what angers one compared to the other, and is there a difference in how they express their anger?
How can I hurt Fi people most effectively ?
Yay, I needed this!
Okay, help me out here. Is this an Fi attitude?
Just thinking about the possibility of knowing that someone I care is talking bad stuff about me by my back drives me crazy. I get reserved and quiet, as 12385214165194 of thinkings go on my head simultaneously. I react really badly when I know someone doesn't like me. I also have a bad reaction when I know people is mockering me. Being sure of something (emotions related) and get proven wrong after is hard for me either. It's not good for me either when possibilities provided by my Ne show me that some friend or similar is way better at something I was supposed to be the best.
I'm not sure if I'm an immature Fi-user, or this is common, or even if this is not Fi.
Just thinking about the possibility of knowing that someone I care is talking bad stuff about me by my back drives me crazy. I get reserved and quiet, as 12385214165194 of thinkings go on my head simultaneously. I react really badly when I know someone doesn't like me. I also have a bad reaction when I know people is mockering me. Being sure of something (emotions related) and get proven wrong after is hard for me either. It's not good for me either when possibilities provided by my Ne show me that some friend or similar is way better at something I was supposed to be the best.
I'm not sure if I'm an immature Fi-user, or this is common, or even if this is not Fi.