Yama
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- Dec 1, 2014
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- MBTI Type
- ESFJ
- Enneagram
- 6w7
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sx
*revives topic* What do you like best about being an ISFJ and what is the hardest aspect of this type?
I dunno, I don't have experience with being anyone other than myself so it's hard to compare. A struggle that I have that I think is probably common to ISFJs is that I tend to be a doormat and let other people take advantage of me because I don't want to be "rude." What I like the best... Fe benefits. Most people seem to like me because I'm a pleasant person to talk to.
How can you discern Si-dom and tert-Si?
Dom Si: Sentimental
Tert Si: Nostalgia
They may sound like the same thing, but they aren't. I feel like tert Si will listen to a meaningful song from their past and be like, "aw, those were good times" and reminisce for a few minutes and then move on., whereas dom Si relives the entire experience including emotions to feel that moment as if it were happening again in the present.
What do you do if two of your friends are in argument or fight? Or are maybe even enemies? I wonder how someone with stronger Fe might handle that.
Avoid it completely unless they get me directly involved. I don't want anything to do with their problems. Even right now I have a few friends on here who don't get along with some of my other friends on here and I've never felt involved in their personal vendettas and would find it silly if they held it against me. If they approach me directly I'd be like "look, that's between you and them. I'm not taking sides."