Nicodemus
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The latter.Would you rather be in a relationship with someone who will allow you complete control of the relationship (or almost complete), take complete control for themselves (or almost complete), or someone who will stand their ground and treat you like an equal, expecting the same in return?
Standing up to other people is not important (I can do that for my partner), but standing up to me, voicing opinions and not being too submissive is crucial - otherwise one could just as well get a dog.