Also tel me why is it that enfps are adverse to normal male persuasions?
I can't be sure exactly what you mean by this, but I think it has something to do with authenticity. When people seem to be playing by the rules, it's kind of a sign they're doing a thing, rather than doing themselves.
Perfect answer.
I have a special fondness for guys who are both socially graceful and blunt. The ones who have practiced how to play nice if they want, but also willfully disregard playing nice when they choose to. I love knowing that my partner can be a classy gentleman when the occasion merits it, but will also call it like it is when the occasion merits it.
As for not being as attracted to "normal" guys and "normal" game... eh. I think normal guys are nice but they already get girls and they're already relatively happy. I like the undiscovered gems better. And even with the relatively normal ones, I like cracking them open and finding the unusual aspects of them. It's pleasant to revel in the freedom of weirdness, and it's pleasing to soothe someone's anxiety about their weirdness and affirm them for who they are, warts and all. There's nothing more satisfying than being able to be truly openly myself around my partner and welcoming him to be truly openly himself, too. He's gorgeous inside and out.
How do ENFPs feel about INTJs romantically.
Are you naturally drawn to INTJ or would you rather prefer the ISTJ?
I tend to find INTJs attractive, but sometimes I can feel like INTJs are too "mature" for me, if that makes sense. I am a very serious person and it is very pleasing to me if my partner has a good dose of levity. Same for ISTJs.
I have a personal fondness for SJs but I think ENFPs on the whole probably are more attracted to INTJs.
Do you folks consider yourselves to have superior cleverness to that of those ultra-witty ENTPs?
Nah, they win. I do feel like I can be better at using my cleverness/resourcefulness in a way that builds people up individually, though. ENTPs can be fun and inclusive but they can also be a little cruel and dismissive. I think that for ENFPs, we enjoy being witty too, but we'll generally rein it in if it's going to come at the expense of someone else feeling bad.
Whats your approach to aesthetics? What usually catches your eye visually?
In terms of decorating, I love a combination of organic, elegant, comfortable, and heartwarming.
In terms of just generally catching my eye, anything that strikes me as cozy and ethereal.