Mm hmm. There are ways of working with/around people you have personality conflicts with. I've talked to my ISFJ sister-in-law and some of the folks at the school to get in-put and perspective on my problem with the ESFJ. I wanted to know how much of the problem is me, if the problem is just with me, etc. At the moment, my strategy is to give her space. When I do encounter her, I try to be as positive as I can, showing appreciation for her hard work because she does work very hard. But if she starts with the tactics that I dislike, I just don't play. I, gently as possible, call her on it and get things on a more honest footing, then work from there. I will say again, I don't think she's a bad person. We just have a conflict.