tinkerbell
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I was chatting with Salt and Pepper on the ENTJ thread and then again with Rag later about NT's and love...
I have a hunch that Nt's are reserved going into relationships because they put those relationships up on a pedistal - making them more important. They seek an idealistic relationship, more so than NF's do.... NT's in love - when they allow themselves are deeply romantic and make great efforts to show that to their partners...
A guy I worked with had notes in is diary for his first meeting with his wife, their aniversary and other big occations... so he would remember to mark them for her.
An alternative is that NT's are just really scared to get hurt so make it hard to let people near....
that NT's use criteria and are not people focused enough to know that 2 or 3 of those criteria tend not to happen in real live people....
Thoughts, challenges, soppy moments, deep love....please share....
I have a hunch that Nt's are reserved going into relationships because they put those relationships up on a pedistal - making them more important. They seek an idealistic relationship, more so than NF's do.... NT's in love - when they allow themselves are deeply romantic and make great efforts to show that to their partners...
A guy I worked with had notes in is diary for his first meeting with his wife, their aniversary and other big occations... so he would remember to mark them for her.
An alternative is that NT's are just really scared to get hurt so make it hard to let people near....
that NT's use criteria and are not people focused enough to know that 2 or 3 of those criteria tend not to happen in real live people....
Thoughts, challenges, soppy moments, deep love....please share....