Hi. I want to ask some advice from fellow NF's. First I am going to ask a general question, and then a specific one. (feel free to answer/ignore as you please)
General: how, as an INFP, can I be less passive and make more active decisions? i.e., make decisions rather than think about things and torture myself all the time? I always sort of let things happen to me. I fall into a victim mentality and I have a terrible time making decisions. Any tips?
Specific: well, I am trying to decide how I can be active and decisive about a specific situation. I wrote in another thread how I have a friend who is an ENFJ, who I have romantic feelings for, but who does not share my feelings. So, it is rather difficult to be friends with him. BUT, I have no choice but to see him all the time for the next two months. And, we have been offered a job that we have to do together and which is a really good opportunity. Any advice on how I can pull myself together over the next 2 months? Anyone been in this situation?
thank you.
General: how, as an INFP, can I be less passive and make more active decisions? i.e., make decisions rather than think about things and torture myself all the time? I always sort of let things happen to me. I fall into a victim mentality and I have a terrible time making decisions. Any tips?
Specific: well, I am trying to decide how I can be active and decisive about a specific situation. I wrote in another thread how I have a friend who is an ENFJ, who I have romantic feelings for, but who does not share my feelings. So, it is rather difficult to be friends with him. BUT, I have no choice but to see him all the time for the next two months. And, we have been offered a job that we have to do together and which is a really good opportunity. Any advice on how I can pull myself together over the next 2 months? Anyone been in this situation?
thank you.