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[INFP] Male INFPs with mother issues
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GirlFromMars
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Awww, you INFP guys make me want to huggle you and look after you!
Does that bother you? :angel:
Does that bother you? :angel:
GirlFromMars
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Not at all....we need it.
Aww, I know I know.
Biaxident said:
Huggle, huggle, huggle until we can huggle nomore!
I don't like to think of us INFP's as "damaged", but we are a sensitive lot, and I think INFP guys are adorable.
What about female INFP's and father issues?
Oooo....
What about female INFP's and father issues?
Good question. Start a thread.
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Mature forum? Like mashing all your food before you eat it and making sure you hit the potty before you have an accident?
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Mature forum? Like mashing all your food before you eat it and making sure you hit the potty before you have an accident?
*pats your head* good boy...
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I'm often a 52% J/48% P, so...
I have a good relationship with both of my parents. If there are any mother issues, it would probably only stem from a slight over-protectedness (all major landmarks in my life tend to happen later than normal). My mom understands me better than most. When I was a child, she did attempt to mainstream me to the kids at school, but I simply didn't fit in. After that, she stopped pushing me to be social and instead tried to cultivate my creative side (piano lessons, guitar lessons, etc.).
Sometimes, I wish she would kick me out of the house so I could grow up a little. But on the other hand, my parents are immigrants who come from a tradition of close family ties. Some of my relatives have four-generation households. I think leaving home (which I don't want to do) would impact my parents more on a cultural basis than an MBTI basis. Basically, that makes me way less desirable to white girls, but I keep trying... and failing.
I have a good relationship with both of my parents. If there are any mother issues, it would probably only stem from a slight over-protectedness (all major landmarks in my life tend to happen later than normal). My mom understands me better than most. When I was a child, she did attempt to mainstream me to the kids at school, but I simply didn't fit in. After that, she stopped pushing me to be social and instead tried to cultivate my creative side (piano lessons, guitar lessons, etc.).
Sometimes, I wish she would kick me out of the house so I could grow up a little. But on the other hand, my parents are immigrants who come from a tradition of close family ties. Some of my relatives have four-generation households. I think leaving home (which I don't want to do) would impact my parents more on a cultural basis than an MBTI basis. Basically, that makes me way less desirable to white girls, but I keep trying... and failing.
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Yea I have mother problems- over-controlling and very manipulative. Although they mostly stem from the problems she had with her mother, which were very bad. She tends to try to use me to fill holes in her life, if that makes sense. She is also an (unhealthy) ESFJ, so maybe you can see how that might be a problem. Me being extremely independent and anti-authortian probably doesn't help very much tho.
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Hmmmmm
I identify so much with many of the issues brought up in this thread. Except I'm female....I do have have an ESFJ mother though...and my father was absent.
Do you know what hurts most, is my mother has never ever tried to get to know me, she just tells what I should do. I'm pissed also, because after seven years of no talking, she's convince herself and the rest of the family she's in the frickin' right. It's like no-one's ever wondered why I felt the need to stop talking to her.
I identify so much with many of the issues brought up in this thread. Except I'm female....I do have have an ESFJ mother though...and my father was absent.
Do you know what hurts most, is my mother has never ever tried to get to know me, she just tells what I should do. I'm pissed also, because after seven years of no talking, she's convince herself and the rest of the family she's in the frickin' right. It's like no-one's ever wondered why I felt the need to stop talking to her.
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