Depends on how into her I am.
My first serious relationship took me 2 years to get over.
Yeah I would say that ENTJs will get over it right away if they had no emotional investment. They probably just convince themselves that their mate wasn't worth the honor of their time anyway. But if one gets into you, then he/she goes all out, at least in my experience.
If there is no emotional investment, there is nothing for me to get over.
My ENTJ cried a lot. He'd go from being super cold drill sargeant busy mode.. Then we'd start to talk about it and he would start to cry and not make much sense at all. Their inferior Fi sucks and doesn't work very well I guess. And he'd apologize for being too "emo." I moved out and we stopped talking for a while. I tried to talk to him recently but he's pretty much still in those two back and forth modes and is too hard to communicate with.
On the 4 of july I told her I could see her anymore.
That was the last time I had sex, and I don't regret my decision at all.
I was with an ENTJ for a really long time, and we ended it mainly because I just was over him. This is how he responded:
1) He wanted reasons, reasons, and more reasons as to why were breaking up. They had to be tangible and sensible. They were hard for me to give mainly because they were so emotionally-based, and I have trouble interpretting emotions.
2) He really wanted the relationship to last, so he tried to figure out "solutions" to our problems. A futile effort, imo, considering that I was just completely disinterested in continuing.
3) He started to point out all of the flaws he found in me. How I was too disorganized and whimsical and living in the clouds. He got bitter and angsty, and his insults towards me were his way of letting out his negative emotions I guess.
4) He became over-the-top confident in a haughty "I don't need her" sort of way. I think he did this to convince himself that he was over me, even before he really was.
Depends on how into her I am.
My first serious relationship took me 2 years to get over.
Try to figure out exactly what happened and why it happened until I am satisfied with the answer.
Then turn into extreme extroversion more where I participate in highly hedonistic Se activities and start organizing and restructuring my life and diving into new things.
Although she is not initiating contact she does react if I sms (text for your foreigners - LOL) or call her. But we both have kept conversation brief and act friendly but reserved.
I was told that she would have swinged axe on me and ignored me if she was over relationship?
Just puzzling as I want to have some indicators to determine if ENTJ over our relationship or not
For the love of god, just ASK her.
For the love of god, just ASK her.
Yeah if she's a true ENTJ, she'll respect the straightforwardness.