[INFJ] How to Bother an INFJ

[Lauren Ashley]

Oh. He won't be with us much longer, huh?

The OP is female.

Anyway, we have no proof that the person in question is actually INFJ. Whenever someone on the forum mentions they know an INFJ, I just assume they're probably not. The likelihood of me being correct is very high. And if the person is INFJ, we have no idea if he is the passive-aggressive type or the in your face aggressive type.

 

[Moiety]

Whenever someone on the forum mentions they know an INFJ, I just assume they're probably not.

Why?

 

[Athenian200]

The OP is female.

Really??

Umm... I'm very, very sorry about calling you a man, OP. :blushing:

Anyway, we have no proof that the person in question is actually INFJ. Whenever someone on the forum mentions they know an INFJ, I just assume they're probably not. The likelihood of me being correct is very high. And if the person is INFJ, we have no idea if he is the passive-aggressive type or the in your face aggressive type.

Eh, it really doesn't matter if they're an INFJ. The things I listed would probably annoy ANY type. Seriously. And it's very likely that something bad might happen to them if they get them mad enough, regardless of type. That's just human nature.

 

[Lauren Ashley]

Why?

Because people mistype as INFJ and others mistype people as INFJ very often. The reality is, they just don't know much about INFJs. Take a quick look at the Popular Culture and Type forum and see how every other person is guessed as INFJ. Besides the whole rarity part, INFJness is not conducive to fame.

Eh, it really doesn't matter if they're an INFJ. The things I listed would probably annoy ANY type. Seriously. And it's very likely that something bad might happen to them if they get them mad enough, regardless of type. That's just human nature.

With the things you listed, for sure.

 

[Nonsensical]

Because people mistype as INFJ and others mistype people as INFJ very often. The reality is, they just don't know much about INFJs. Take a quick look at the Popular Culture and Type forum and see how every other person is guessed as INFJ. Besides the whole rarity part, INFJness is not conducive to fame.



With the things you listed, for sure.

You just assume that they are never INFJs? Or are often not INFJs?

 

[Lauren Ashley]

You just assume that they are never INFJs? Or are often not INFJs?

Unless it is someone who knows a lot about typology saying they know an INFJ, then yes, I assume they are not INFJs.

 

[Nonsensical]

Unless it is someone who knows a lot about typology saying they know an INFJ, then yes, I assume they are not INFJs.

Wouldn't that make you just as ignorant as somebody who claims to know about Typology when they don't?

 

[Lauren Ashley]

Wouldn't that make you just as ignorant as somebody who claims to know about Typology when they don't?

No. Your logic sucks.

 

[Nonsensical]

No.

Hmm. Ok.

 

[Moiety]

Because people mistype as INFJ and others mistype people as INFJ very often. The reality is, they just don't know much about INFJs. Take a quick look at the Popular Culture and Type forum and see how every other person is guessed as INFJ. Besides the whole rarity part, INFJness is not conducive to fame.

Hmmm....not saying I believe either way, but why are INFJ considered rare in the first place? Does incorrect typing figure in statistics?

If so many people type themselves as INFJ incorrectly, and if no ones knows you as well as yourself, what is there to to say about the validity of those statistics or MBTI?

 

[Nonsensical]

INFJs aren't a rare/special/superior breed.

 

[Lauren Ashley]

Hmmm....not saying I believe either way, but why are INFJ considered rare in the first place? Does incorrect typing figure in statistics?

If so many people type themselves as INFJ incorrectly, and if no ones knows you as well as yourself, what is there to to say about the validity of those statistics or MBTI?

Valid questions, but way off-topic. I don't want to turn this into a "reliability of MBTI" thread; plenty of those around to bump. The OP will come back to this thread and wonder what in the world happened.

 

[Lauren Ashley]

INFJs aren't a rare/special/superior breed.

Your strawmen crumple in the wind.

 

[Moiety]

^Valid questions, but way off-topic. I don't want to turn this into a "reliability of MBTI" thread; plenty of those around for you to bump. The OP will come back to this thread and wonder what in the world happened.

Right.. I forget all formality when I'm online, browsing internet forums. But invariably, some J comes along to sabotage my happy-go-luckiness.... And thus Ne bridges are burnt.

 

[Lauren Ashley]

Right.. I forget all formality when I'm online, browsing internet forums. But invariably, some J comes along to sabotage my happy-go-luckiness.... And thus Ne bridges are burnt.

Sorry, bub. Maybe another time. Buy you a beer?

 

[Moiety]

Sorry, bub. Maybe another time. Buy you a beer?

You are a bad person, Lauren Ashley.

 

[Athenian200]

You are a bad person, Lauren Ashley.

[YOUTUBE="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sf3uiCfNkaM&feature=related"]Bad company [/YOUTUBE]

If you're frustrated now, you should never even think about stressing out an INFJ.

 

[ladypinkington]

Show up at their door without warning or get someone else you mutually know to do that and ask to visit- I know I hate it when people just drop in- my house is my sanctuary and cocoon- so when people just drop by unnanounced and without warning- it really invades my sense of space and peace because I need to emotionally and mentally prepare for company and I like being in control of my home and homelife.

If ever you see them and are in a social scene where you are joined by mutual friends, act like they don't exist. This is the worst. Talk to people and look everyone else in the eye but completely ignore the INFJ and never even so much look their way and engage people to focus on you- ignore and interrupt if the INFJ attempts to speak- this gets me fired up and sore like nothing else.

Be careful though- lest you inspire revenge from the INFJ who will be very creative and subtle at getting back at you or will at least fantasize about using on you very intense interrogative techniques and may one day crack and say the hell with being good and following my moral compass I want revenge on the world starting with you, the next thing you know there is an annoying and loudest ever made alarm clock hidden within your walls- that's right it is inside your walls, that goes off at 3:33 a.m. every day,lol, and rotted durian fruit painted on on the inside of the walls as well,lol.

 

[paintmuffin]

Sure you don't want to rethink messing with Sasquatch INFJ?

Haha, I can take him. He is easily confused.
Anyway, this thread is too long already, I think I'll get back to my scheming.

 

[Lauren Ashley]

^See, this is where an ENTP will absolutely fail in bothering an INFJ. They'll get bored and move on before the INFJ cracks.