^^ He made it worth my while.
Ha, that made me smile.
^^ He made it worth my while.
I think there are definitely odd people out there that would take it as a compliment that others find their SO attractive enough to flirt with them. Im a lot more primitive in my outlook. If youre with me, youre with me. If you dont want to be with me, then dont be with me. Anything tending towards infidelity smacks of cowardice.
Mine would just make comments about guys who are flirting with her; insist she's not interested, but also watch for the vein in my head to pop. She would also act like it wasn't bothering her so I told her that if it becomes a problem I'd look after it. "Well I don't want you to get angry" she'd say, and I wouldn't be, till she started pushing that I shouldn't get jealous, while looking like she was expecting me to. She'd eventually get an accusing tone about it and that's when I'd start getting angry, and I'd end up imploding my emotions. I got cold. She broke up with me after that saying I don't care enough about her.
Wow sounds like you had a insecure bitch problem on your hands there, Mr. Kitty, and youre without question better off without her. People dont usually play the fishing for affection thing with me, because Ill initially take whatever comment they make initially at face value (ie, Guy: "Some girl was hitting on me at the bar, but it didnt mean anything." Me: "Sounds good. Thanks for sharing) and if they persist Ill just call them on it.
My worst relationship experience, the guy used it as a dominance thing. Like, he'd do things that bordered on cheating in a way Id find out about it to show he could do whatever he wanted even if we were together. And he was able to fall on the "look but can't touch" rule to make me feel hysterical for calling him out on it. Royally fucked up my judgement and only went that far because I was already too messed up, in love with him and inexperienced to really do something about it. It was devastating though and Ill never tolerate that sort of behavior again. You get trampled a couple of times and learn I guess. :shrugs:
Btw, this girl wasnt that star-crossed romance with the NT youve mentioned before was it?
This would be a good way to get yourself shot. Out of a cannon. Into the sun.
Of course, it took several bad experiences to develop that attitude. I just view jealousy as a completely useless and self-destructive emotion, so I don't take kindly when someone tries to cultivate it.
Are there any NTs who are into intensely emotional partners? You guys are seriously bumming me out lol
Are there any NTs who are into intensely emotional partners? You guys are seriously bumming me out lol
Are there any NTs who are into intensely emotional partners? You guys are seriously bumming me out lol
Are there any NTs who are into intensely emotional partners? You guys are seriously bumming me out lol
Are there any NTs who are into intensely emotional partners? You guys are seriously bumming me out lol
Are there any NTs who are into intensely emotional partners? You guys are seriously bumming me out lol
Are there any NTs who are into intensely emotional partners? You guys are seriously bumming me out lol
My wife is very astute when it comes to people's emotions, and this is something I appreciate because I am not.
The recent influx of relationship threads in the NT and NF communes makes me wonder if its the iNtuitive mating season or something.
Are there any NTs who are into intensely emotional partners? You guys are seriously bumming me out lol
As long as the highs balance the lows I'd be fine with an emotional partner. It's when there's drama for the sake of drama that you will lose most NT's interest.