^If the above is the criteria many of us will still remain undetectable.
Excellent!
My thoughts exactly. The Enneagram cannot be understated here, for instance I do not relate to the cliche moodiness that INFJ's are known for. If I'm feeling depressed (
and you probably won't even know it), it's for a damn good reason. I am 9w1, btw.
..Does the INFJ know by intuition if they like the ENTP...followed later, perhaps weeks later with the reason why they like or may be in love with the ENTP?
I often shy away from such explanations about love because words simply cannot do justice to my strong feelings. If I love you, you will know by my actions. Yes, to some extent I could point out certain qualities I admire in my So, but some aspects of love are just unexplainable. It's a million little things that make you fall in love with someone.
Does an INFJ express desire first, and slowly fall in love with the ENTP? Does the natural progression usually transpire into love where ENTP and INFJ 'meet' later with desire, thought and emotion developed to a point where then both know they were made for each other?
I have never fallen in love, so I can only speculate. For what it's worth, in all my friendships over the years, it took me years to trust them. Even then I will always hold a large part of myself back. The parts of me I allow you to see, I will only share
bit by bit for two reasons... 1) To see what you will do with the information: for if you break my confidence, you will probably never gain my trust back. 2) If you truly want something with me, you will be willing to work hard to earn my love and trust.
They drive me crazy (in both a good way and a bad way) because they don't. say. what. they're. thinking.
Guilty. Because of this, anyone who probes relentlessly has my attention; I need to be convinced that you are genuinely interested before I open up. However, if you have not earned my trust yet, no amount of questioning will get me talking. GOSH, I am a project