Sentura
Phoenix Incarnate
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- ENXP
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didn't you understand what i was trying to explain to you?
you didn't understand what i wrote?
I'm exactly like that linguist. I know I'm not a J because I can't relate to the INFJ functions... nor am I uncomfortable with leaving things open ended. So there. I'm fine with making things decided, while being able to change it at any time. I'm also borderline.
I felt no obligation to respond because that's not really how I felt about it at all... Totally misjudged me.
YAY, someone feels the same way!So you understand what I mean, then. Oh good, I was starting to think "Whoa. You're crazy. Or at least silly. Or at the very least - relatively odd."
Answer: Two reasons.
A) I have always wanted to do it. I knew it. I did it. (Finalized - J)
B) If it hadn't worked, I could have returned to the USA with little or no problems or concerns, and be right back where I started. Win-win situation (open - P).
That's a huge-ass decision: moving to a new country. So yeah, I guess both.
I'm exactly like that linguist. I know I'm not a J because I can't relate to the INFJ functions... nor am I uncomfortable with leaving things open ended. So there. I'm fine with making things decided, while being able to change it at any time. I'm also borderline.
I felt no obligation to respond because that's not really how I felt about it at all... Totally misjudged me.
oh yes you did, you made it sound like it was, ah, ridiculous to even consider being something else than the MBTI archetypes.
function orders aren't complete either; it may be very well that there are function orders which do not fit into any of the 16 archetypes. since the proof of claim rests of the plaintiff, i'd like to you to prove that there are only those function orders that the MBTI suggests.
here's a hint: you can't, because proofs of this nature are empirical.
in my example i will use myself. i consider myself an ENXP. why? because i have a high Ti as well as a high Fi. those two functions do not go together under one type; rather, they are from different types. you say that because a function order does not exist in the MBTI, there cannot exist a person with that function order. i'm saying that you cannot prove that. incidentally, i just proved you wrong because i am between types. you are, however, reluctant to accept this because of some sort of blocking, presumably by a S function.
eh, i don't think so. what you explain in the post above is exactly what you said before. i'm pretty sure that all you look at is the functions and their order.
in my example i will use myself. i consider myself an ENXP. why? because i have a high Ti as well as a high Fi. those two functions do not go together under one type; rather, they are from different types. you say that because a function order does not exist in the MBTI, there cannot exist a person with that function order. i'm saying that you cannot prove that. incidentally, i just proved you wrong because i am between types. you are, however, reluctant to accept this because of some sort of blocking, presumably by a S function.
I just see MBTI as reasoning for acting the way we do, but it isn't good for describing how someone perceives the world. Often they are strongly related, but they can be different. This is difference between socionics and MBTI imo.
For example someone may act strongly T, and they would even type them self as T. But, they may see those who act strongly T in situations that require F as insulting or even disgusting even if they themselves didn't know how to handle the situation in an F way.
I think we all agree that there are times for each dichotomy, but your mental processes effect how you view the world and to what extent you can go overboard with a dichotomy. How you behave may not always reflect that in an obvious way.
Interesting, interesting! I'm getting ready to make a similar move, in about 2.5 months. I think the difference between P and J here is:
A) I have always wanted to do it. I knew it. I did it. (Finalized - J)
B) There is no B. (Finalized - J)
I think of MBTI as useful for examining your own internal processes but it's very limited when it comes to understanding and predicting behaviour because there are so many other factors outside of MBTI that influence and override natural behaviour. That's why I tend tend to be very cautious when typing people because I know that behaving like a certain type is different from being that type.
this thread has been seriously derailed.
trying to ague my point and still stay on topic:
it seems to me that most J types have a clear cut idea of long term goals.
It wouldn't make sense if a J type had Pe as one of it's top two functions(the most heavily used).
Pe is associated with going with the flow of sensual or intuitive information. Not really having a clear cut idea of how they connect. For this reason P types are indecisive.
Js would not be decisive if Je and Pi weren't they're top two, and Ps wouldn't be as free spirited if not for Pe and Ti as their top two.
Uncertainty of J/P means you have no idea how you behave. Which doesn't make sense assuming that a person has actually tried with some effort to figure out how they behave.
The thing is, it doesn't matter about the function strengths, just about their uses. I have a strong Te, but I am still an INFP. The order of the INFP makes sense to me, how each one fits in, etc. You're going to end up using Ti or Fi primarily. Functions can work together to imitate others, which may be why your Ti and Fi are so high.
Apparently from the books I've read Ti and Fi are in the same sections of the brain, making them impossible to use at the same time. If you're an ENTP your Fi simulation may come from the values that make the most sense to you, and having them incorporated as a fact within you (Ti). ENTPs, when they get in touch with Fe, will have empathy, and may as a result gain some values as to how people should be treated etc (I'm no expert on ENTPs, but you get my point). A lot of the time Ti is grossly misunderstood, as well as Fi. You may want to look up some definitions. Here is a great definition of Ti on the forum. http://www.typologycentral.com/foru...-duper-typology-overview-doom.html#post603900
If I went by what you're going by to determine that you're an ENXP, I'd be an XXXX, simply because I'm borderline on all preferences. It really just doesn't work that way. On the tests you've taken I score 0-10% on everything. That doesn't make me an XXXX.