[INTJ] INTJ Females - Please present yourselves for wooing.

[Synarch]

As an ENTP, I've decided that I want to meet and romance an INTJ female. Where do you all hang out? How can I find you? Just point me in the right direction.

 

[Economica]

As an ENTP, I've decided that I want to meet and romance an INTJ female. Where do you all hang out? How can I find you? Just point me in the right direction.

Online. Srsly, that's what I'd recommend even if I weren't newly single. I don't know of any decided places of congregation, although the concentration is not bad in academia, but that's kind of hard to access if you're not in it. - Of course, 'hard' is relative, and you're an ENTP, so what am I thinking - go crash some grad school parties!

 

[Usehername]

As an ENTP, I've decided that I want to meet and romance an INTJ female. Where do you all hang out? How can I find you? Just point me in the right direction.

lol.

In biochem lab, I found a few female INTJs (note: social skills mileage varies). We read a lot. Check the libraries. And coffee shops where there's cheap coffee (we're frugal in general). The plus side is that we're generally alone. The downside is that this is usually at our computers in our homes.

Or you might want to check out places where you can learn new athletic skills--I'm not interested in playing volleyball, softball or rowing like I did in high school atm; this winter I plan on getting my dad to teach me how to stop* on hockey skates so I can play hockey with my male friends. We're always acquiring new skills.

You also might want to check out music stores--sometimes when I need a break from studying I'll bus to the music stores just to pick up a guitar and play around for a little while by myself, wandering and looking at all the parts on the new guitars. I'd also do this at bike stores if I didn't already work at one.

*If you look semi-competent on skates while stickhandling, it's best to alert your peers BEFORE that you don't know how to stop besides good ol' snowplowing or 180 crosscut into another direction. Lesson learned.

 

[Economica]

In biochem lab, I found a few female INTJs (note: social skills mileage varies).

I thought about adding this to my academia tip. No kidding.

"Like most intellectuals, he's intensely stupid" - Marquise de Merteuil (a socially skilled INTJ) in Dangerous Liaisons.

 

[Synarch]

Lack of social skills in INTJ females is endearing.

 

[BlackOp]

As an ENTP, I've decided that I want to meet and romance an INTJ female. Where do you all hang out? How can I find you? Just point me in the right direction.

Ha...I was going to start a similar thread. I'm not so sure they truly exist though...We would probably have an ESFJ baby. The "powers that be" know we get a kick out of twisted irony.

 

[Sinister Scribe]

I don't know any other INTJ females (other than myself), but I tend to hang out either at my computer, in the library, the lab or anywhere else I know I won't be disturbed too much. I don't think INTJ females are very common; you might be better off trying to find an INFJ female.

 

[Synarch]

They exist. You just have to leave the house to find them, BlackOp. With my INTJ male friends, I usually have to play matchmaker because it's difficult to pry them away from a screen.

 

[Synarch]

I don't think INTJ females are very common; you might be better off trying to find an INFJ female.

I've met about the same number of each. INFJ females are more sociable, but are just as difficult to get to know.

 

[BlackOp]

I've met about the same number of each. INFJ females are more sociable, but are just as difficult to get to know.

Thats how a forum likes this serves as a good buffer....we are the cats under the couch. We see a mouse though and our true colors shine..... Am I the only intj that has an actual picture of himself for an avatar? I want to see a real intj woman.....until then I remain unconvinced they exist.

 

[Firelie]

Am I the only intj that has an actual picture of himself for an avatar? I want to see a real intj woman.....until then I remain unconvinced they exist.

*points at profile* There ya go. Enjoy.

 

[entropie]

*lol* The only INTJ female I know is my business associate . She is pretty hot, always clean and practically styled, no sense for anything besides duty and in winter she wears shirt, while everyone has got thick jackets, asking "Sup ?"

The only problem is, his name is Manfred and he is a guy. But I tend to overlook that, when falling in love with his humor

 

[BlackOp]

*lol* The only INTJ female I know is my business associate . She is pretty hot, always clean and practically styled, no sense for anything besides duty and in winter she wears shirt, while everyone has got thick jackets, asking "Sup ?"

The only problem is, his name is Manfred and he is a guy. But I tend to overlook that, when falling in love with his humor

 

[BlackOp]

*points at profile* There ya go. Enjoy.

Boo.....:steam: *Whoops, just clicked the picture. I thought you were messing with me.*:hi::hi:

 

[SillySapienne]

Where's the wooing, goddammit!!!

I am thoroughly disappointed!!!

 

[Firelie]

Boo.....:steam:

What the heck are you booing for? You asked for pictures! There's some pictures!

 

[SillySapienne]

What the heck are you booing for? You asked for pictures! There's some pictures!

 

[Firelie]

Silly boy.

 

[burkeus]

Maybe walk across the street. Or tell knock-knock jokes to hobos you meet while skipping along the railroad tracks on the way to the store. Isn't that where you find them? Ok, or make your way to NYC via the train; I'm telling you, the train is where you'll find the more interesting dudes and dudettes. Or hop a plane to Florida. I hear swimming with dolphins is all the rage, maybe you'll find one there. Or wait, Canada, lots of hotties up there, no wait, Connecticut, connect i cut. Doubtful. no wait, ... I think I'm wrong. You said the right direction? Sorry, I don't know much about that. Maybe your best bet is to find them online, tell them you're cool, get them to believe you, then disappear. Works like a charm.

 

[littlemissgiggles]

An art museum?

A bookstore?

As for me, I'm usually with my ESTP boyfriend (I budget a couple hours for him in the evening after class, homework and rehearsal).

Speaking of which, I know some INTJs who do theatre or at least enjoy watching plays. You'd probably have to wade through every other type though.