I may not get to the space wizards today.
I will talk about the episode of the Sopranos I watched last night, which I actually had seen before.
This episode kicks off with AJ and his friends stealing communion wine and imbibing. Hilariously, one of his friends tries to downplay what they are doing by resorting to a theological argument that it's "only blessed wine, not sacramental wine." I don't know what the difference is but I would imagine that this is probably a real distinction that exists that may or may not be relevant. Regardless, it made me laugh.
I think the best part of this episode was that we delved into Tony's psychology and what he believes about who he is and what he does. He's proud of his father and what he was. He is probably proud to have taken over the family business, but he also wishes he could have been on a different path, a more respectable path. He doesn't want AJ to be like him, but he doesn't think it's fair that AJ is being punished for what he did and treats him to ice cream sundaes.
We flash back to young Tony (with White Rabbit to remind you it's the late 60s), and we don't see any kind of big major traumatic incident that explains anything. We see his father beat somebody up and his father led off by the police, but Tony never seems that bothered by this. (Indeed, he admires his father for this).
The only incident that seems traumatic in all of this is the argument between Tony's mother and father. Tony seemed perturbed by this, and I was confused about why. There is no sign of them getting violent towards him or anyone else. Then I realized that he was horrified by was the fact that his mother was bossing his father around. This suggests to me that the root for all of this is really all these codes of masculinity.
There are things that seem a little like cliches or odd products of their time. The use of "white rabbit" to refer to the 60s, the weird second-long flashes of Meadow from the college episode, which might have been influenced by MTV, and the idea of ADD (which is not called ADHD; ADD had become mainstream by the end of the decade and there was also an episode of the Simpsons around this time where Bart had it). The rest of the episode is excellent but these things I found distracting and I think the episode would have been better if they weren't there.
AJ is getting tested for ADD. I think this storyline is maybe trying to suggest that Tony has it and if he had been diagnosed and given Adderall as a kid he wouldn't have been a gangster, which I'm not convinced of. I think much of it is the family dynamic he was born into. There is some weird stuff Tony has going on with his Mom, but I don't want to say it's just that, because even if she wasn't in the picture, his father was still a violent man. Would he have been better off if his father had married someone more compliant? That doesn't make sense. Maybe I'm reading the ADD thing wrong, and this is part of the theme of this episode is suggesting that it's extremely complex and is not just one thing. Maybe Tony did need those pills, but he also has a messed up family dynamic going on and I don't think Ritalln would have prevented that kind of damage. Like I said, I don't understand the point of this ADD storyline.
While getting tested, AJ expresses his excitement about South Park, and watching the "first one, where Cartman gets an anal probe". (Ah, the late 90s) But anyway, when I heard that, I knew I'd seen this, because I remembered AJ saying that.