Pionart
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I've been trying to piece this together for a while now, and I think I have the answer.
The usual story I see is something like: the dominant develops in early childhood, the auxiliary in adolescence, the tertiary in the 20s and 30s, the inferior from the 40s onwards.
That's incorrect.
Actually, each stage is roughly the same length, though it can vary depending on what happens in the person's life.
I would guess that as an infant the dominant function isn't yet present, but still presents quite early on.
Then the auxiliary would appear probably some time in primary school, the tertiary in high school... maybe 5-10 years per function as an estimate?
Then they keep developing. Mid-life would mark the change from the 4th function to the 5th, and it keeps developing down to the 8th, and after that I'm not quite sure.
But a stage can potentially last for decades.
See, to pass from one stage to the next, something must prompt to change. It must be clear to one that their current mode of operation is not serving them and they need something new.
Often the transition from one stage to the next can be traumatic, perhaps initiated by actual trauma, as one's worldview undergoes a major shift.
So if someone is in a stage... and they are rewarded for being in that stage, they identify with that stage, they see no reason to change, then they will stay like that for what could be a long time.
And there is likely a minimum time a stage can take, probably some small number of years, because the function has to be mastered within that time until it has run its course.
So don't buy into the typical picture that is painted, it doesn't work like that.
!
You may be asking "Why should I believe you?".
The obvious answer to that is: don't believe me - try it for yourself.
Divide your life up into stages. Don't think of it in terms of functions at first, just try and think of a few turning points which marked dramatic shifts in your behaviour.
Then, try to figure out what characterised each of these stages. What aspects of cognition were added, what were you focusing on?
Then map that focus onto a cognitive function - do the stages match up with the function order of your type?
That's what I did: at first I was trying to start with a function order and map that onto my life, but I could only see the truth when I started with my life first, not the model.
It's also helping me to understand where other people are at in life. Now not only my own development but that of other people has fallen into place.
So have a think about it. What were the major stages of your life? What characterised them?
The usual story I see is something like: the dominant develops in early childhood, the auxiliary in adolescence, the tertiary in the 20s and 30s, the inferior from the 40s onwards.
That's incorrect.
Actually, each stage is roughly the same length, though it can vary depending on what happens in the person's life.
I would guess that as an infant the dominant function isn't yet present, but still presents quite early on.
Then the auxiliary would appear probably some time in primary school, the tertiary in high school... maybe 5-10 years per function as an estimate?
Then they keep developing. Mid-life would mark the change from the 4th function to the 5th, and it keeps developing down to the 8th, and after that I'm not quite sure.
But a stage can potentially last for decades.
See, to pass from one stage to the next, something must prompt to change. It must be clear to one that their current mode of operation is not serving them and they need something new.
Often the transition from one stage to the next can be traumatic, perhaps initiated by actual trauma, as one's worldview undergoes a major shift.
So if someone is in a stage... and they are rewarded for being in that stage, they identify with that stage, they see no reason to change, then they will stay like that for what could be a long time.
And there is likely a minimum time a stage can take, probably some small number of years, because the function has to be mastered within that time until it has run its course.
So don't buy into the typical picture that is painted, it doesn't work like that.
!
You may be asking "Why should I believe you?".
The obvious answer to that is: don't believe me - try it for yourself.
Divide your life up into stages. Don't think of it in terms of functions at first, just try and think of a few turning points which marked dramatic shifts in your behaviour.
Then, try to figure out what characterised each of these stages. What aspects of cognition were added, what were you focusing on?
Then map that focus onto a cognitive function - do the stages match up with the function order of your type?
That's what I did: at first I was trying to start with a function order and map that onto my life, but I could only see the truth when I started with my life first, not the model.
It's also helping me to understand where other people are at in life. Now not only my own development but that of other people has fallen into place.
So have a think about it. What were the major stages of your life? What characterised them?