RadicalDoubt
Alongside Questionable Clarity
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Thank you much for your responses btw. I'm sort of surprised surprised how quickly you centered in on the INTx types; The T/F axis has always been the hardest for me to decide on, but on this thread and my discussions with some others I've been getting similar responses. I should probably stop doubting myself at this point.
It happens a lot with people. As I've mentioned here, I struggle with people and relationships in general and, being that I have pretty bad social anxiety, especially in my younger days (or during pretty unhealthy periods of mine) I tried to mitigate this by studying people. Initially, it starts with me paying extra attention to people behaviorally and gauging their interaction patterns and such, but eventually leads to trying to generalize that behavior so I can predict and respond to it. It becomes really head based, because based on my generalizations (which aren't always trustworthy because they're my own generalizations based on small samples of information and psychology articles I've read and theorized about), I'll try to make systems outlining how people think/act based on how I think people think or should think. A lot of times, as long as I keep systems general it sort of works but realistically in many situations my logic just seems to be way off base because I refuse to use enough outside data (because I'm more conformable dealing with my own ideas and playing possibilities out in my head).
I used to do this a lot in school too, but with non-human information my judgement tend to be more accurate. I go by the basis if I generalize a concept and find concepts similar to that, lots of times their behavior will align and I can use those connections to understand how different concepts work under different conditions. But again, it relies heavily on my own generalizations and self-expansion of concepts despite me typically doing quite a bit of research on topics, so it's occasionally way off from reality. Had an issue with that in economics, which unfortunately came up during a class debate. I knew and understood the theory, but had skewed that to extend to behaviors that didn't actually happen (also some of that was me misreading a concept, but I think the idea still stands).
It's so silly because I refuse to trust myself in areas that I'm actually fairly competent in and then completely disregard my own biases with these sort of things. I've sort of forced myself to become more doubtful so I fall into these pitfalls less.
I did type as INFJ for awhile, so I do relate to it to some degree (although I had concluded that my relation to it may be more just related to having low sensing). Generally, I have a pretty slow processing speed and don't really understand personally what it means to feel part of or at one with your environment. I'm fairly ascetic and find myself being able to oscillate the past and the future in terms of goals and recollection, but very rare in the present (and typically when I'm not in the past or future I'm just in the land of thoughts). I become inactive because I'm too busy thinking about moving forward and how I could act rather than actually acting at all. Also sometimes high Se is described as having a recognizable presence and I don't have that at all. While I'm weirdly memorable for some reason, I have no gravitas and am told my presence is "ghostly" because I just disapear in plain sight.... Idk if half of that actually has anything to do with low Se though.But maybe I'm wrong, how do you relate to Se inferior?
Your definition doesn't seem too off, although Ti tends to be pretty technical on it's own (especially when paired with semi-apparent Si). Since it doesn't rely necessarily on information right in front of your faces, it does seem to be more assumptive and somewhat general. The Ne sort of adds a more general flair to it since it is a pretty context oriented function.Seems really Ti-Ne, but maybe someone will come in and argue for Ni-Te, lol. I thought Ti about generalising concepts, and Ne about the different contexts.
Sure, I'll talk about some semi-lighter incidents.Yeah and now this kind of sounds Se inferior... but then you say you rely on your own judgment over the world, which would be Ti, not Ni.
Out of curiosity, can you give me an example of where you used your own judgment about reality that was wrong and left you vulnerable to actual reality?
It happens a lot with people. As I've mentioned here, I struggle with people and relationships in general and, being that I have pretty bad social anxiety, especially in my younger days (or during pretty unhealthy periods of mine) I tried to mitigate this by studying people. Initially, it starts with me paying extra attention to people behaviorally and gauging their interaction patterns and such, but eventually leads to trying to generalize that behavior so I can predict and respond to it. It becomes really head based, because based on my generalizations (which aren't always trustworthy because they're my own generalizations based on small samples of information and psychology articles I've read and theorized about), I'll try to make systems outlining how people think/act based on how I think people think or should think. A lot of times, as long as I keep systems general it sort of works but realistically in many situations my logic just seems to be way off base because I refuse to use enough outside data (because I'm more conformable dealing with my own ideas and playing possibilities out in my head).
I used to do this a lot in school too, but with non-human information my judgement tend to be more accurate. I go by the basis if I generalize a concept and find concepts similar to that, lots of times their behavior will align and I can use those connections to understand how different concepts work under different conditions. But again, it relies heavily on my own generalizations and self-expansion of concepts despite me typically doing quite a bit of research on topics, so it's occasionally way off from reality. Had an issue with that in economics, which unfortunately came up during a class debate. I knew and understood the theory, but had skewed that to extend to behaviors that didn't actually happen (also some of that was me misreading a concept, but I think the idea still stands).
It's so silly because I refuse to trust myself in areas that I'm actually fairly competent in and then completely disregard my own biases with these sort of things. I've sort of forced myself to become more doubtful so I fall into these pitfalls less.