My thoughts-I'm a typical 8W9
Depends on what "lose" is. A board/video/ball or whatever game? I like to play, and I'm going to lose sometimes. Being a sore loser is absolutely unacceptable to me. It is more fun to beat a sore loser though, if you know what I mean, because they are usually the ones that need the spanking.
I shoot firearms in competition, it's a one way range, and it's nice to win, but if you lose, at least you go home alive and had fun. Two way range? That's where you hate to lose-ya think!?!?
More than one disagrees with me? Happens all the time. If you can show me how I am wrong, or that I may need to rethink my position due to new information, great. If you disagree, make no sense and are illogical, I'm not giving in. I'll state my case to dozens at once if need be. Then you got those people that already know everything and you can't tell them anything, 'cause, they already know everything.
I'm an empath, and I don't like to feed the narcissists/BPDs/Cluster Bs any more, so If I detect this type of toxicity, I will walk away, but that's not giving in, it's called not wasting your time.