This is meant to be casual or it can mean something deeper if someone rather see it that way.
I'm just curious as to how INFJs deal with their need for perfection. In a world full of sin, if the littlest thing sets them off, are they wanting to be by themselves?
Does it truly get better as they age or does it continue all the way through their lives where they will react in such ways that come across rude and cold, only to insist on needing space as well as energy?
I just wonder about it sometimes. Their personality sometimes comes across to me as like living in a land of enchantment -- like a fictional world or a book they might have read.
How do they get by in the real world? So many different people and personalities not just in personal time but in professional time. Get by as in how do they deal with people in everyday life?
Every time I take time out to read about an infj I just sit there thinking that one minute I should attempt to reach out in one direction only to get to the bottom or the middle of the page to find out that my first idea won't work and that I should try another or that in reality they don't care about anything you have said so you pretty much mean nothing at all to them.
What I always walk away with is that if youre not 100 percent perfect in their mindset of perfection, you aren't deserving if their time. In short, nothing in this world is going to make them happy.
Also, just curious, do INFJs have a sense of humor at all? Does anything truly make them laugh? Do they react carefree of anything in the world?
And for those who aren't an INFJ... have you ever felt yourself trying to take everything they say or don't say (you've read about it and applied it to someone you know ) about themselves and work with it or work with them to try to help them along -- only to find out you've failed? And that your good intentions were just met with constant annoyance or igorance?
Basically, have they ever exhausted you to a point you just felt the energy that the INFJ values so much just drain from your body, especially your mind?
And if the greatest or one of the greatest things with INFJ is feeling so hard, why is it that they never seem to have the ability to feel outside if their own feelings?
Meaning do they truly care about other people's feelings more than their own?
I'm just curious as to how INFJs deal with their need for perfection. In a world full of sin, if the littlest thing sets them off, are they wanting to be by themselves?
Does it truly get better as they age or does it continue all the way through their lives where they will react in such ways that come across rude and cold, only to insist on needing space as well as energy?
I just wonder about it sometimes. Their personality sometimes comes across to me as like living in a land of enchantment -- like a fictional world or a book they might have read.
How do they get by in the real world? So many different people and personalities not just in personal time but in professional time. Get by as in how do they deal with people in everyday life?
Every time I take time out to read about an infj I just sit there thinking that one minute I should attempt to reach out in one direction only to get to the bottom or the middle of the page to find out that my first idea won't work and that I should try another or that in reality they don't care about anything you have said so you pretty much mean nothing at all to them.
What I always walk away with is that if youre not 100 percent perfect in their mindset of perfection, you aren't deserving if their time. In short, nothing in this world is going to make them happy.
Also, just curious, do INFJs have a sense of humor at all? Does anything truly make them laugh? Do they react carefree of anything in the world?
And for those who aren't an INFJ... have you ever felt yourself trying to take everything they say or don't say (you've read about it and applied it to someone you know ) about themselves and work with it or work with them to try to help them along -- only to find out you've failed? And that your good intentions were just met with constant annoyance or igorance?
Basically, have they ever exhausted you to a point you just felt the energy that the INFJ values so much just drain from your body, especially your mind?
And if the greatest or one of the greatest things with INFJ is feeling so hard, why is it that they never seem to have the ability to feel outside if their own feelings?
Meaning do they truly care about other people's feelings more than their own?