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- Jun 6, 2013
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- Enneagram
- 4w3
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- sx/so
I recently realized something, which I think has been a rock in my typing and wonder whether any other NFs can relate to that.
Emotionally I am more negative, than positive and I usually give more neutral or negative feedback to people, than positive. This is the reason why many of my friends see me as non emotional or cold. My need for having harmonious relationships with people often holds me back from really hurting anyone's feelings, I don't do that...
But now I wonder... I am not comfortable with romance and with intimacy. I am not ok , with expressing my feelings and it's because I hate to feel emotionally vulnerable. When I manage to keep my distance and my sarcasm, I feel like I have the protection I need. But even in a close relationship, I hate the feeling of emotional vulnerability and dependence. I often try to vibe as strong and independent, but when it comes to be touchy feely and intimate... that's a destruction of it, it makes me feel uncomfortable.
Any NFs like that?
Emotionally I am more negative, than positive and I usually give more neutral or negative feedback to people, than positive. This is the reason why many of my friends see me as non emotional or cold. My need for having harmonious relationships with people often holds me back from really hurting anyone's feelings, I don't do that...
But now I wonder... I am not comfortable with romance and with intimacy. I am not ok , with expressing my feelings and it's because I hate to feel emotionally vulnerable. When I manage to keep my distance and my sarcasm, I feel like I have the protection I need. But even in a close relationship, I hate the feeling of emotional vulnerability and dependence. I often try to vibe as strong and independent, but when it comes to be touchy feely and intimate... that's a destruction of it, it makes me feel uncomfortable.
Any NFs like that?