Infertility is a

, so quit using it. You said "there is no shortage of children already born who need parents," therefore everyone who is considering having children should adopt.
You keep using "cost/benefit analysis" as your argument, but you're not following it all the way through. Your argument is that infertile women born without uteruses shouldn't waste $180,000 on a uterus transplant because there are "better things" to do with $180,000, but "life-saving or disability-mitigating procedures" sure as hell isn't one. Oh no sir. Cost/benefit analysis would show us that the rest of us are better off to just let those sick, disabled people die. They're a
burden on us. An inordinate amount of health care spending is wasted on keeping chronically ill patients alive.
And what about doing a cost/benefit analysis on the entire adoption system? Spending
billions on social services to take care of kids whose parents can't or won't is a huge waste of money, given what we'll get in return. We'll collectively spend much much more on these kids than they'll ever put back in our economy.
It's not all about dollars and cents. You can call these parents 'selfish' if you want, but people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. You're just as selfish. Believe me, we all are.
You know what's
really selfish? People who have kids and are not willing to or are incapable of raising them.
Incredibly selfish. We spend a hell of a lot more than $180,000 on foster programs and orphanages. Maybe when you're done chastising this Swedish couple you'll move on to chastising deadbeat parents.