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What's your favorite way to have fun that involves little to no money?
What's your favorite way to have fun that involves little to no money?
That's not even a question. Baby making without actually making babies. Isn't that everyone's favorite way to have fun with little to no money?
Are you trying to be stereotypical here or is that just a coincidence ?
Are you trying to be stereotypical here or is that just a coincidence ?
Seriously?
The girl was just speaking her mind. Don't be unpleasant cause of whatever combination of non-Se use and inferior Si issues that are clearly fucking with you right now.
seriously don't project your shit onto me. i was just asking. there was no judgement involved. girl can like lots of sex all day long and it matters not to me. it is a very esfp thing to say...and was wondering if she was just playing into that.
I don't think she's "playing into" her ESFPness anymore than you "play into" being ENFP by punctuating all your post with inane giggling. Also, ftr, who said anything about judgement? I called you out for being unpleasant towards someone that was being candid. If there was some element of performance in her response, the idea that it would be an ENFP who felt like they were in a position to comment on it is just completely beyond me.
you decided i was being unpleasant which i assumed was because you thought i was judging her negatively in some way. i wasn't. like i said i was asking a question...without any ill intent. so there's nothing to "call me out on" and no reason for you to be baffled by an enfp asking it.
you are simply projecting what you might have meant had you asked....i assure you if her and i were sitting in person she would've known how i meant it.
A lot of what you're saying here is based on your own interpretation of what I'm feeling as opposed to just taking what I've said at face value. I would have never asked the OP the question you asked because what possible difference could it make? In asking if someone was "trying to be stereotypical" as opposed to simply making the observation that what they said was true to type, there's an element of drawing out being done. Such a question is meant to expose the degree to which the person is genuine in making the statement for its own sake versus choosing to make a statement based on the impact one knows it to have. Regardless of what you might or might not have felt, your language was both concrete and to the point, and not all that subject to interpretation. Sex is pretty much a universal as far as I'm concerned, so it wouldn't have occurred to me that someone might claimed to enjoy it with some ulterior motive to seem one way or another beyond simply enjoying sex. It'd be as much of a non sequitur as asking if she was "trying to be stereotypical" by saying she liked ice cream.
What's your favorite position?