It doesn't suck, mostly. Sometimes I wish I could be a little less stressed and little more carefree and relaxed about things. But I remember that everything around us in this world needs people behind the scenes to make it work. At a party, you will see SJ's cleaning, preparing, cooking, etc. In an office, you will see them running things making sure things go smoothly. I don't think anyone can fully know what it is like to be a "different type." Who we are is all we know and what we know is what we are used to and like. Being an ENFP, you look at the world through your own lens, and through that lens, anything that isn't quite as carefree, adaptable, loose, etc does not seem fun. Monotonous work, planning, organizing, may seem like chores to you [MENTION=5684]Elfboy[/MENTION] but for others those things are what we love and keep us sane in a crazy and ever changing world. We all have a place in this world, not little boxes, but places in which we can flourish and do what we do best. It does not suck to be an SJ, it can be tiring, it can be stressful, but we are best equipped to handle the negatives. NF's perhaps don't like the idea of being an SJ because it's boring and it "sucks," SJ's perhaps don't like the idea of being NF because its useless and lazy (stereotypes and nothing more). For myself, I wish I could be a bit more extroverted, intuitive, feeling and perceptive, but I'm happy and proud to be a curmudgeonly ISTJ.