Bolded is my impression so far.

You seem fairly Fe-heavy, less deep into Ni, which would make you seem both more accomodating with people and less of a space cadet. (I get the space cadet impression also from INTJs who are really deep into their Ni; I think a more developed J function has a grounding effect on INxJs and ENxPs).
Your thread on
sympathetic imagination, where you described envisioning all these tragic scenes and imagining people's experiences from the inside, makes me favor N over S for you. I have a number of SFJs in my family, and while they're all sensitive and caring people they pretty much direct that to the reality in front of them.