hmmm 99% of the time I am pursued. In the other 1% of the time I just open the door very wide... thats as good as it gets.
I've noticed in my life that romantic relationships, friendships and any other type of relationship just HAPPENS. No trying involved.
I have the same dilemma that FalseHeart mentioned: contending with the desire to pursue, but to not come off as intrusive or seeming too "eager", I guess.
To the NF's: so you'll entertain being pursued even when and maybe long after the point of disinterest? That sure could be fucking frustrating for the pursuer... Though, I'm thinking that this would vary depending on the individual and not be type related so much...?
I'm so sick of pursuing men. But I know that I need to because the type of men I like are pussies and don't pursue. They play WoW and beat off eccessively.
I'm so sick of pursuing men. But I know that I need to because the type of men I like are pussies and don't pursue. They play WoW and beat off eccessively.
I actually for the most part don't like being pursued. It makes me feel weird like there are these all these roles and I have to fit into a different shape. I'd much rather set the standards of the interaction. Of course it is flattering, but on a deeper level, I don't really like it.
Unfortunately it happens more often that I am pursued than am the pursuer. I am not interested in most people romantically.
I like both
I like it in fact when we play a game of tag..especially in the beginning. However as the game continues...I kinda enjoy him taking charge and me being the one chased and cornered, I do admit
Why would you want to pursue such men? Where's the respect? Does not compute. To me it sounds like a recipe for disaster but that's just me.
I think she's saying she digs antisocial nerds...
True, INTx's are it seems.Like I said, a recipe for disaster...
Exactly
MafiaAngel: Time for a new breed of men.
"A generation of men raised by women. I’m wondering if another woman is the answer we really need."
-Fight Club
In my short dating experience I have 90% of the time been the one who was pursued.