Malkavia
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- Dec 2, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ENXP
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- 3w4
What is this fickleness I keep hearing about? Everyone says how ENFPs dont have schedules or drop out on people to much or get off topic too much.
Maybe Im just an anomaly in the ENFP system but standing people up or being fickle is one of the most ANNOYING things to me. I absolutely cant stand it. Are there any other ENFPs who feel this way? When I choose to be friends with you, I expect both of us to put a lot of effort in our relationship.
I recently read in another thread of two other ENFPs having weeks or months in between talking to their best friends. That would absolutely kill me. I see my best friend about everyday for a few hours. I cant imagine not talking to people who are close to me for so long.
Im pretty organized. I have plans, I stick to them, and Im pretty organized.
I still think Im ENFP however because I feel that the functions fit me very well. It seems like the "results" dont always, however.
Any thoughts?
Maybe Im just an anomaly in the ENFP system but standing people up or being fickle is one of the most ANNOYING things to me. I absolutely cant stand it. Are there any other ENFPs who feel this way? When I choose to be friends with you, I expect both of us to put a lot of effort in our relationship.
I recently read in another thread of two other ENFPs having weeks or months in between talking to their best friends. That would absolutely kill me. I see my best friend about everyday for a few hours. I cant imagine not talking to people who are close to me for so long.
Im pretty organized. I have plans, I stick to them, and Im pretty organized.
I still think Im ENFP however because I feel that the functions fit me very well. It seems like the "results" dont always, however.
Any thoughts?