I am at a point where I am running out of ideas in repairing my relationship with my ESFJ mother (that has been broken for a good 9 years), and if things do not improve after these last few attempts, I am done.
Presenting the MBTI to her was something that I had thought about many times so that maybe we could start on common ground, but she is quick to reject anything theoretical (among many other things, I have even tried applying her own religious views to our situation).
SJs, if someone were to present the MBTI to you, how would you want them to do it? Also, any advice that can get an ESFJ unstuck from a serious case of Si-trauma (reliving a divorce) would help a lot.
Thanks.
Presenting the MBTI to her was something that I had thought about many times so that maybe we could start on common ground, but she is quick to reject anything theoretical (among many other things, I have even tried applying her own religious views to our situation).
SJs, if someone were to present the MBTI to you, how would you want them to do it? Also, any advice that can get an ESFJ unstuck from a serious case of Si-trauma (reliving a divorce) would help a lot.
Thanks.